When Margaret’s husband, Tom, suffered a severe stroke at 68, she assumed she would automatically have the authority to manage their finances and make medical decisions on his behalf. They had been married for over 40 years, after all. But when Margaret tried to access his bank account, the bank refused to give her control. The bank told her that without a Power of Attorney (POA), she had no legal authority to act on his behalf. Similarly, when she attempted to discuss Tom’s care with his doctors, they told her that without a Health Care Proxy (HCP), she had no legal authority to make medical decisions on his behalf. Margaret was devastated. To gain control over their finances and make medical decisions for Tom, she had to go through the lengthy and expensive process of petitioning for guardianship—a situation that could have been completely avoided if they had put
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Turning 18 is a big deal, not just from a parent’s emotional perspective, but legally too. Eighteen is a magic birthday, a milestone into adulthood. At 18, your teen can vote, buy a house, or marry their high school sweetheart. They can also go to jail, get sued, and gamble away their college tuition in Vegas. In your eyes, your baby will always be “your baby,” no matter their age, but in the eyes of the law, that “baby” is legally an adult on their 18th birthday. In New York State, a child is entitled to be financially supported by his or her parents until the age of 21, unless married, self-supporting or in the military; as far as the law is concerned, he or she is an adult at age 18 and information regarding their health, finances, and education will not be disclosed to anyone without their written consent.
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A dementia diagnosis is a traumatic time for any family. Dementia happens slowly and progressively over time. In the early stages, some symptoms are often thought of as just signs of aging. Beginning signs can be as simple as losing car keys, forgetting where the car is parked, or even forgetting to turn off the oven. Unfortunately, dementia is incurable and progresses over time. It is important to have difficult conversations sooner than later. There are a few things you can do to protect your loved one during this challenging time. Gather Financial Documents There are several advantages to having all financial documents in one place during an early diagnosis of dementia. Dementia patients usually have difficulty remembering where they put things. It is important to not only put all financial documents in one place, but to also make copies and have them kept with a trusted member of
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Many people are confused about the difference between a living will and a healthcare power of attorney. A living will specifies life prolonging treatments you do or do not want in the event you either suffer from a terminal illness or are in a permanent vegetative state. It does not become effective unless you are incapacitated and, generally, requires certification by your doctor, and another doctor, that you are either suffering from a terminal illness or have been rendered permanently unconscious. So if you suffer a heart attack, for instance, but do not have a terminal illness or are not in a permanent state of unconsciousness, a living will does not have any effect. You would still be resuscitated, even if you had a living will indicating that you don’t want life prolonging procedures. A living will is only used when your ultimate recovery is hopeless. For situations where you
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Incapacity is defined, from a legal standpoint, as the inability to make sound decisions regarding one’s personal or financial affairs. Failing to plan for the possibility of incapacity in advance can create significant problems for seniors and their loved ones, particularly with regard to managing assets and medical care. This is why we recommend that all of our clients have us design durable powers of attorney for medical care and finances. Here are some of the most important reasons to have your own durable powers of attorney. If you become incapacitated, you are able to choose the person who makes financial and medical decisions on your behalf rather than the court. Without powers of attorney, the court will appoint someone to manage your financial affairs and medical care in the event of incapacity. The person named by the court could very well be someone you would never have wanted to
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